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I'm new to Body for Life, but not so much to fitness... Or more accurately, the study of fitness. I love reading about the stuff and applying what I learned into my gym routine as far as weight training goes (not so much cardio since, for some reason, my subconscious makes me avoid the treadmill after my initial 5-minute warm-up). I joined my first challenge in June, and at first I figured it would be easy to start, but then I realized something I'd never realized before:
My problem isn't eating too much (which is what I thought it was by default). It's eating far too little!
When I'm not thinking about it, I tend to completely skip breakfast, sometimes lunch too, and then think "Holy crap I'm STARVING! What's that all about!?" and then gorge myself at dinner on such wonderful things as hamburger helper or plates of spaghetti that could fit a whole fashion model inside!
I've been trying to follow the eating plan in the book. A portion of carbs, a portion of protien, easy right? No. The biggest block of all though, is that I have friends who really don't care that I'm trying to lose fat and gain muscle, and since I spend pretty much all my time with them, I tend to eat whatever they're eating for dinner, and it's never the best choices I could make... Nor is it ever just one portion...
I need inspiration and advice and stuff!
My problem isn't eating too much (which is what I thought it was by default). It's eating far too little!
When I'm not thinking about it, I tend to completely skip breakfast, sometimes lunch too, and then think "Holy crap I'm STARVING! What's that all about!?" and then gorge myself at dinner on such wonderful things as hamburger helper or plates of spaghetti that could fit a whole fashion model inside!
I've been trying to follow the eating plan in the book. A portion of carbs, a portion of protien, easy right? No. The biggest block of all though, is that I have friends who really don't care that I'm trying to lose fat and gain muscle, and since I spend pretty much all my time with them, I tend to eat whatever they're eating for dinner, and it's never the best choices I could make... Nor is it ever just one portion...
I need inspiration and advice and stuff!
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Re: New to BFL.
Mon, July 16, 2007 - 9:56 AMthat's almost always the case - you're ready to make changes and your friends don't care, don't understand, or just flat don't support you. You'll need to go on your own journey to find ways around this - and you will make new friends in the process.
Be clear on your goals, be clear on what you want to accomplish. Write it down. Be specific.
I'll bet that you're not doing this for your friends - so you don't need their approval.
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Re: New to BFL.
Tue, July 17, 2007 - 9:17 PMYou're right. Thanks for the advice!
It's true that my friends are apathetic about my fitness goals. The funny thing is, one of them is skinny as a rail and wants to get bigger and stronger, and the other always complains that he's too pudgy or has too much "cottage cheese" :o.
And so I try to apply what I've researched and studied, and tell them "Hey, if you do it this way it might work" and they just wave it off and say "eh, whatever." and I'm left thinking "Well damn! Just go on then, but when I'm walking around with a six pack and wasp-waist and you're still lifting ten pound weights and wondering why your muscles aren't growing, don't ask me for help!"
Whatever the case, yes, I love these guys to death, but I do wish to make friends who possess the same goals and ideals as I do.
And you're right! I don't need their approval at all! Free agency!
Now that that's percolating in my brain, it's time to convince myself that forgetting to eat is like a turkey forgetting to put its head down when it's raining. -
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Re: New to BFL.
Fri, July 20, 2007 - 10:15 AMIn my opinion, most people just want an easy life - which means doing what they are doing and not making big changes. I found that the BFL program worked great for me - but I was willing to put the time and effort into it because I really wanted it bad. Not everybody is like that - so good for you for making a commitment. It's a big deal!
Let your friends learn by your example.
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